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Relationships & Purity
Christian teaching on friendship, dating, marriage and sexual purity
God made us for relationship. In this 22-part series Pastor Ras walks through what the Bible says about our need for connection, the purpose of dating, choosing a partner, healthy boundaries, marriage, singleness and celibacy, and living a pure life in a sexualised, digital world.
The articles are in order, so you can read them as a course from the beginning or go straight to the question you are facing today. Whether you are single, dating, engaged or married, you will find honest, biblical and practical help, written with grace.
The series
22 articles, in order
Part 1 Understanding Our Need for Relationships Discover the profound truth of our innate need for relationships. Explore how God designed us as relational beings, and learn how our connections are… Part 2 Created for Connection Explore the profound meaning of oneness in marriage and faith as depicted in the Bible. Discover the divine plan for unity in relationships and how… Part 3 Go and Multiply Discover the profound significance of marriage as a divine union, where love, wisdom, and grace multiply in the echoes of God's wisdom. Explore the… Part 4 Strength in Partnership Discover the profound symbolism behind God's choice to create Eve from Adam's rib, emphasizing partnership, equality, and unity. Explore how this… Part 5 Theological Implications of Relationships Discover the profound connection between Christian marriage and the unchanging love of Christ. Explore Ephesians 5 and learn how to nurture… Part 6 Love: The Cornerstone Explore the profound message of 1 Corinthians 13 and discover how love, as described by the Apostle Paul, forms the bedrock of lasting relationships,… Part 7 The Role of Celibacy Explore the profound meaning of celibacy as a divine gift in the grand design of life. Discover how it allows individuals to fully dedicate… Part 8 The Purpose of Dating Discover the true purpose of dating as a journey to find a God-centred partner. Learn how to discern compatibility, foster love, and align with God's… Part 9 Unequally Yoked Discover the timeless wisdom of being equally yoked in relationships. Learn how aligning foundational beliefs and values can make your journey… Part 10 Boundaries in Dating Discover the importance of setting healthy boundaries in Christian dating. Learn how emotional, physical, and spiritual boundaries can protect your… Part 11 The Concept of Purity Discover the profound meaning of sexual purity in a world confused by lust. Explore the biblical perspective that honours God's design for our bodies… Part 12 Steering Away from Aimless Dating Discover the wisdom of purposeful dating according to the Bible. Don't drift aimlessly in relationships; set a clear course towards the destination… Part 13 Self-Discovery Before Dating Explore the crucial steps of self-discovery on the path to love and companionship. Heal past wounds, align with your purpose, and nurture emotional… Part 14 Journeying Towards Marriage Discover the profound meaning of dating as a journey towards marriage. Explore the path of patience, wisdom, and mutual discovery guided by God's… Part 15 God's Design for Sex Explore the profound purpose of sex within marriage as God's design for love, unity, and procreation. Discover how this sacred union reflects… Part 16 Distortions of God’s Design Explore a timely scripture that resonates with today's world. Discover how people drifted from God's plan, like a ship without a compass. This… Part 17 Jesus on Adultery Discover how Jesus' teachings on lust apply to the challenges of the digital age. Learn why abstaining from pornography and masturbation is crucial… Part 18 The Value of Sexual Integrity Discover the importance of sexual integrity in our lives as Christians. Explore how it goes beyond mere abstinence and contributes to a community of… Part 19 Purity in a Sensual World Discover the sacredness of God's design for sexuality within marriage. Learn practical steps to uphold purity in a world filled with sensuality.… Part 20 Answering the Call to Personal Purity Explore Apostle Paul's heartfelt message to the Thessalonians, urging them to lead pure and honourable lives. Discover the importance of… Part 21 Honouring and Nurturing a Pure Marriage Explore the sacredness of marriage and how Ephesians 5:25-33 teaches us to cherish, honour, and build a pure and selfless love that mirrors Christ's… Part 22 In the Image of God Explore the significance of Genesis in revealing God's design for human beings, marriage, and sexuality. Discover why the Bible emphasizes the union…
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