Living Secure in God’s Approval

Rasol Manouchehri Ardakani - 02 September 2025

See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him.
— 1 John 3:1 (NIV)

From the moment we’re young, we learn what it feels like to be praised—and what it feels like to be overlooked. Whether it’s at school, at work, or even in church, it’s easy to fall into the trap of seeking approval from people. A compliment lifts us, but a critical word can send us spiralling.

I’ve been there. I’ve felt the pull of wanting to be liked, noticed, and accepted by others. There’s nothing wrong with enjoying encouragement, but when our sense of worth rises and falls on people’s opinions, we’re standing on shaky ground.

The Bible reminds us of something far better: God’s love has been lavished on us. Not given sparingly. Not handed out in small portions depending on how well we perform. Lavished—poured out in abundance. And that love has given us the highest title we could ever have: children of God.

When you know you are fully approved by God, it changes everything. You no longer have to exhaust yourself trying to earn the approval of others. You don’t have to be crushed when someone doesn’t notice your efforts. You can walk in confidence knowing that your Father in heaven sees you, knows you, and delights in you.

I remember a time when I poured my heart into a project and expected certain people to acknowledge it. Their silence hurt. But in that moment, God whispered to my heart, “I saw it. I’m proud of you.” That reminder set me free from the need to be validated by everyone else.

Friend, God’s “yes” over your life is worth more than every human opinion put together. People’s approval is temporary. God’s approval is eternal. Let His voice be the loudest in your life. When you live from His approval instead of for people’s approval, you’ll find rest for your soul and confidence for your journey.

Prayer of the Day:
Lord, thank You that I am loved and approved by You. Help me to rest in Your acceptance and not chase after the approval of others. Let Your “yes” be enough for my heart every day. Amen.

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