Rooted in Love, Not Rejection

Rasol Manouchehri Ardakani - 30 August 2025

Rejection is something we all encounter at some point in life. It might come from hurtful words spoken over us, being left out, a broken relationship, or even a season where we feel unnoticed or undervalued. It starts as a small seed, but if left unchecked, it can grow into something much bigger, a deep root that touches every part of our lives.

I’ve learned that whatever you are rooted in will always show up in the fruit you bear. If we are rooted in rejection, that root can produce bitterness, insecurity, anger, or self-pity. It can make us live as though something is wrong with us, even when God’s Word says the opposite. The enemy loves to steal the truth of God’s acceptance from us, replacing it with lies that we are unwanted or unworthy.

But here’s the good news: God’s love can replace every root of rejection. His acceptance is not based on what you’ve done or how others see you. It’s based on who He is and what Jesus has already accomplished on the cross. When Christ dwells in our hearts, when we let His love sink deep into our roots, everything changes.

I think of it like a tree. If the roots are healthy, the tree will bear good fruit. If the roots are damaged or poisoned, the fruit will reflect that. The same is true for us. If we are rooted in abuse, shame, guilt, or the thought that we are never enough, our lives will bear the fruit of that pain. But if we allow God’s love to be our foundation, we can stand strong, secure, and unshaken.

There have been seasons in my life when I felt overlooked or misunderstood. At times, rejection left me doubting my value. But each time I returned to the truth of Scripture, I found my footing again. God reminded me, “You are mine. You are loved. You are chosen.” Over time, I realised that healing doesn’t come from trying harder to be accepted by people. It comes from receiving the love and acceptance I already have in Christ.

Friend, you do not have to stay rooted in rejection. Those roots can be pulled out and replaced with the unshakable truth that you are loved and valued by God. If He could do it for me, He can do it for you too.

Prayer of the Day:
Lord, I thank You that my worth is found in You and not in the opinions of others. Uproot every lie of rejection from my heart, and let Your love take deep root in me. Help me to stand secure in the truth that I am chosen, accepted, and loved by You. Amen.

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