Day 6: Self-Discovery Before Dating

MAIN SCRIPTURE: Psalm 139:23-24 (NLT) 23 Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. 24 Point out anything in me that offends you and lead me along the path of everlasting life.

DEVOTIONAL:

In the pursuit of love and companionship, it is easy to overlook a very important step: the journey of self-discovery. Before going on the path of romantic relationships, it is very important to examine your heart.

1.  Past experiences, traumas, and disappointments can leave scars that impact our interactions and relationships. Taking time for reflection and healing allows us to approach future relationships with a heart unburdened by past pains. Seek God’s healing touch first!

2.  Understanding your purpose and calling is a significant aspect of self-discovery. When you align your life with God's plan, you gain clarity on your values and priorities. This clarity is vital for looking for a partner who shares similar life goals and aspirations.

3.  Emotional and spiritual maturity is also very important for a healthy relationship. Developing attributes such as patience, kindness, humility, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23) prepares you for a healthy relationship.

4.  A strong relationship with God is the cornerstone of self-discovery. Through prayer, meditation on the Scriptures, and fellowship, you grow in your understanding of God's love and His plans for your life.

PRAYER:

Heavenly Father, I pray for my fellow believers seeking a partner. Thank You for Your love and grace. Guide them in self-discovery, heal their past wounds, and strengthen them in maturity. May they establish boundaries that honour You, and may their hearts align with Your will in their pursuit of a relationship. In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen.